Recently I read somewhere that it can be good for a couple to work out together, to motivate each other, offer support, etc.
...No offense to Jord, but I don't want to see him doing the hip walk at Jazzercise. And he doesn't need to see me all red-faced and sweaty. Not my best moments.
So, in an effort to keep us connected as a couple, I told Jord about some goals I would like to set:
- Go to Jazzercise 3x a week
- Drink at least 2 bottles of water during day (roughly 4-5 cups)
- Eat smaller portions
- Cut back on snacking
Jord had a few goals as well, so we are now prepared to keep each other motivated and remind one another of why we want to exercise. (What a good couple we are!)
As I washed some dishes from dinner I told Jord I have been feeling fat recently (truth!) ...I have picked up 5-8 lbs since we were married and I do not intend to let it hang around. I waited politely for my encouragement, and when it didn't come, I gently suggested he encourage me.
The Husband's Encouragement: But you have a plan!
Not quite what I was looking for.
He eventually found his way to "you are always beautiful," much better.
